Deluxe Silicone Butt Plug Amateur (Large, Ø 40 mm), Anal-Plug with Foot

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We have done it about 5/6 lately with no problems and have also had an organism through anal penatiton only. I would limit the amount of time - even to a minute or 2, until you really get the hang of relaxing and not suffering any unpleasant after effects.

I don't know whether you've watched it in porn vids but the vast majority of people can't have anal sex like that.We dont usually bother with fingers, but what position are you using as some make for a more painful (and sore after) experience than others?

I will try your other suggestions although I need to find a butt plug that looks more "feminine" than the ones I have seen. I have no interest in being on top, that isn't what makes it exciting for me, but missionary could work. Its a nice filling feeling, but totally different to having anal and doesnt necesarily help with the relaxing in the begining. However, the necks of plugs are usually quite slim so you might need a dildo that is a bit thicker to prepare even more.I'm not advocating no lube, just making use of my own naturally produced + saliva but yes, I did mean a douche. There is a whole lot of misinformation about anal and its "gasps" dangers, lengthy prep needed, practice, training etc. Norma might mean using a douche - I have done this occasionally, but usually don't bother with more than showering. I find if my dh stimulates my clitoris is helps me relax and just hold it until your ready to proceed and it can be highly enjoyable , after a couple of times your bum will get used to it I know because dh accidentally put it in my bum and I didn’t scream in pain. i'm also a fan of a bit of girth - going back to fingers, one is unpleasant, two is much better but three and it starts to get really good.

Just a thought - the thing about butt plugs is that the neck is usually quite slender, to allow for a more comfortable wearing experience. I suppose the hope is that with enough slow and gentle at the start you will be better prepared for the fast and exciting part at the end? My butt plug has quite a thick neck which gives a nice stretching feeling - it's a glass one from Love Honey - but overall is quite short - I don't like the poking feeling of anything going too deep!

Hands and knees is probably the most painful entry wise and ends up with the most soreness afterwards if you continue in that position. I think it's something related to a more sustained stretch, than stretch/relax/stretch that makes it more comfortable if you see what I mean? uk/bejewelled-metal-clear-jewelled-butt-plug-3-35-or-4-inch but it seems that might not be thick enough.